Hi Patrick,
I don't think there's any "easy" way to do it. If you've only got a couple instances, easiest thing might be to just stuff the proper "db"s in. Possibly a macro could be constructed to do it(?).
Unless I'm mistaken, Nasm will assemble the first form it encounters in insns.dat. If you were to swap the two instances of "ADD REG32, REG32" you'll find in insns.dat and recompile Nasm (needs PERL), I *think* Nasm would assemble "the other one". Whether it would be worthwhile to do this throughout (I don't even know which instructions have such forms)... depends on how bad you need it, I guess. :)
Best,
Frank